what is conscious kink?

I believe kink can be a powerful tool for connection, emotional release, embodiment and transformation. My sessions will take you on a deep journey to explore themes such as pleasure v pain; surrendering v leading; serving v receiving; taking v allowing. We can also explore power dynamics, D/S roles, impact play and energy play, all in a safely held container. Power and eroticism when intertwined can be very potent and freeing.

I consider myself more as a sensual Top rather than a natural Dom. I prefer to use more energetic touch, breath work and movement to activate and open the body and I take pleasure in the role of serving, allowing for the receiver to effect an emotional release to feel more free and embodied.

It is my intention to hold space in a therapeutic way for emotional and energetic release to occur during our session. As such, for the first session, I do not offer any sexual services and my pants stay on. After we have built up trust, had at least one session together and if there is a connection between us, we can discuss in advance, if we would like to bring in more sexual activity into the play and how that might look. We will also discuss sexual health and any potential risks. I work with singles and couples.

how may a session look like?

We will first meet either on Zoom or in person to discuss what you want to get out of the session. Before we begin a session we will go through boundaries and consent, the traffic light system and safe words to build safety and trust for us both. If we are to explore D/s roles we’ll discuss any edge words as well. Then I will create a ritual within the space, which can include calling in a deity, picking a sacred oracle card and enveloping an energy bubble around the client to enhance the experience and create safety. We’ll begin with some simple connection exercises, breath-work and vagus nerve activation to co-regulate our nervous systems before moving into play.

A session will typically last 2-3 hours allowing time for aftercare. I will also follow up with a call a day or two later as part of the aftercare process.

Where? There are options such as hiring a purpose kink space in London, or having the session in my living room in London E12.

Prices: I want to make this work as accessible as possible and we can discuss this in our discovery zoom chat. Depending on the venue my fees are from £60 to £80 per hour. If you are on low income we can discuss a price that works for us both.

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“Jim has a calm and supportive presence. I felt that he worked intuitively and with skill to connect to me and support me to release energy blocks. I felt expansive and calm after the session” — LAUREN
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